Unrealistic Expectations

Many people have been led to have unrealistic expectations from this season. Our lives are often driven by expectations of a personal and materialistic nature. When our expectations are based on materialistic gifts, they usually lead to disappointment. But as we grow older, we discover that it isn’t the material things that bring joy and happiness. Expectations for Christians have spiritual dimensions as revealed by the hope and promises as revealed in scriptures. The foundation upon which this season rests is based on intangible spiritual gifts - inner peace, calmness, hope, and an awareness of the presence of Emmanuel.

Jesus was born at a time of high expectations based on human conditions. It was a time of hope that the Messiah, a deliverer promised by the prophets would come. The birth of Jesus was only the beginning of the story of prophetic fulfillment. As he grew into manhood, his words and actions indicated that he was indeed the promised Messiah. Yet the nature of the Messiah he became wasn’t what the people wanted. They desired a political ruler who would use power to overtake the forces in place. So of course they were disappointed and surprised when Jesus demonstrated self-giving love and compassion, and gave his primary attention to the needs of the poor, the outcast, and neglected in society. The religious authorities eventually condemned him, and his temporary popularity among the people turned to rejection.

Christmas doesn’t make sense without knowing the rest of the story that leads to a cross and an empty tomb. Who would have ever expected God’s story to end that way? Faith, however, teaches us to expect the unexpected that is reflective of God’s desires for us as revealed by Jesus Christ.

During this season of Advent let us ask this question, “What are the realistic expectations that will help focus on the true meaning and message of Christmas?” As we address this question in the context of the Christmas story, we can be moved to a deeper level of faith that addresses our spiritual quest. Then we will discover that what Christmas has to offer will fulfill all the expectations that give meaning to our lives.