As a youngster growing up, my parents
taught me proper manners. I learned to say “yes, ma’m,” and “no, sir,” to my
elders. I also learned to say “please”
and “thank you” when appropriate. Such teachings of these mannerly expressions seem
to be slowly disappearing from our society.
We are often quick to criticize and complain, and slow to affirm and
offer thanks.
To be
true to ourselves and the One who created us, we must first and foremost always
say thank you to our God. During this
month we will gather for special services of thanksgiving and as families to
express gratitude for life’s bountiful blessings. While this annual national
Thanksgiving observance causes us focus on the good things of life, Christians
focus on the Source of all good things. The holiday observance is just a
day. It will quickly pass. The Apostle
Paul suggests that true thanksgiving is a lifestyle: “In everything give thanks always,” he wrote
to the Christians of his day. Thanksgiving cannot be captured in any one
experience, day, or season. Rather, it
is a way of life that characterizes our lives as a people who live under grace
as recipients of God’s blessings. Indeed, true thanksgiving is a lifestyle of
gratitude that produces gracious living.
My hope and prayer for each of us is that we
will strive to make our lives expressions of thanksgiving. As God has blessed us, let us find ways to be
a blessing for others. We would do well
to remember the old Scottish prayer that says, “Lord, you have given us much.
Give us one thing more: grateful hearts. Amen.”
The
Apostle Paul’s words express my sentiments for each of you who are among my
family and friends: “I thank God always
for you and your faith.” I wish for you
and yours a happy Thanksgiving and continued blessings!