Saturday, November 23, 2013

True Thanksgiving

As a youngster growing up, my parents taught me proper manners. I learned to say “yes, ma’m,” and “no, sir,” to my elders.  I also learned to say “please” and “thank you” when appropriate. Such teachings of these mannerly expressions seem to be slowly disappearing from our society.  We are often quick to criticize and complain, and slow to affirm and offer thanks.                                
                
To be true to ourselves and the One who created us, we must first and foremost always say thank you to our God.  During this month we will gather for special services of thanksgiving and as families to express gratitude for life’s bountiful blessings. While this annual national Thanksgiving observance causes us focus on the good things of life, Christians focus on the Source of all good things. The holiday observance is just a day.  It will quickly pass. The Apostle Paul suggests that true thanksgiving is a lifestyle:  “In everything give thanks always,” he wrote to the Christians of his day. Thanksgiving cannot be captured in any one experience, day, or season.  Rather, it is a way of life that characterizes our lives as a people who live under grace as recipients of God’s blessings.  Indeed, true thanksgiving is a lifestyle of gratitude that produces gracious living.
                 
My hope and prayer for each of us is that we will strive to make our lives expressions of thanksgiving.  As God has blessed us, let us find ways to be a blessing for others.  We would do well to remember the old Scottish prayer that says, “Lord, you have given us much. Give us one thing more: grateful hearts.  Amen.”  

The Apostle Paul’s words express my sentiments for each of you who are among my family and friends: “I thank God always for you and your faith.”  I wish for you and yours a happy Thanksgiving and continued blessings!

Friday, June 28, 2013

Virginia Annual Conference Overview

Guided by the theme "Lord, teach us to pray," the 231st session of the Virginia Annual Conference of the United Methodist Church was convened by Bishop Young Jin Cho on Friday, June 21st.  In response to the question raised by the opening hymn, “And Are We Yet Alive?” participants appeared to affirm throughout the event, “Yes, very much so!”  

As the session began, Bishop Cho commented that in preparing for his first annual conference he prayed, "Lord, have mercy on me. Then he said, "By the grace of God, so far so good!" Host Superintendent, Joe Carson, noted the "firsts" of the conference: Bishop Cho's first annual conference, and our first time at the Hampton Roads Convention Center on the newly formed York River District. The first day became "fervent Friday" as a result of the inspiring and challenging address by Bishop Cho. His noteworthy comments included: "No spirituality, no vital congregations!" "If we are not connected to the Vine we cannot bear much fruit."  "The main issues we face are spiritual." "Spiritual vitality begins with a spiritual connection with God."  "Ministry as usual is no longer an option." The day concluded with the Service of Remembrance and Communion with 29 clergy remembered, and an energetic sermon by Rev. Clarence Brown.

Saturday began with Bible study, and became a full day of taking care of business which included a lot of sitting, listening to reports, and voting. (No nap time was included on this year's agenda!) Worship was once again magnified by lively music and inspiring preaching. In the midst of meetings, worship and prayer we also served and generously contributed our time, talents and money. Two hundred volunteers bagged 50,000 lbs. of potatoes, UMCOR Relief Kits donated totaled 36,476, worth $453,647; 4 Cans 4 Conference collected 7,000 lbs. of food for the Peninsula Food Bank; Conference offering was $155,228 at the close of the session.

For some, the highlight of Conference came Saturday with the recognition of retirement; for others it was the Service for the Ordering of Ministry (licensing, commissioning and ordination.) Rev. Tom Berlin offered a powerful message and reminded us to seek the joy in ministry.  Saturday’s dinner for retirees sponsored by VUMPI and ARMS provided a wonderful time to enjoy good food and fellowship.

Sunday's agenda included the Board of Pensions report and recommended changes related to pension and health benefits effective January 1, 2014. The actual report includes 20 pages. Summary in two words: increased costs. Details of approved changes will be sent from the VUMPI office.

Worship and fixing of appointments concluded the conference. In his closing message, Bishop Cho remarked, “As we return home we begin a walk into a future full of uncertainties.”  Yet, he reminded us, “There is a message and promise from the Lord:  ‘Be strong and courageous, and do not be afraid, for God is with us!’”  (Joshua 1:9)  His deep spirituality and humble servant leadership was evident from the beginning to the end of the conference. At the benediction, Bishop Cho shouted, "Get out of here!" which immediately brought laughter. When order was restored, he finished his departing words with "in peace and hope." Most of us were still laughing and smiling as we left the Convention Center. Congratulations go to our “rookie bishop” who handled things like a pro while displaying personal warmth, grace and confidence!  

Friday, May 24, 2013

A Spiritual Journey

Last Saturday I joined about 300 other United Methodists from across the Virginia Conference in the Bishop’s Convocation on Prayer.  It was an insightful and spiritually enriching experience.  The next day (Pentecost Sunday) I found myself spontaneously quoting Bishop Cho at the beginning of my sermon:  “No spirituality, no vital congregations; no spirituality, no fruitful ministries.” 

My colleagues and I are currently leading a strategic planning process for a local church. The process includes several phases and events, including a sermon on visioning. Such a process is a spiritual journey. The outcome is determined by how deeply engaged leadership and members depend on prayer to guide them. Truly vital and fruitful ministry is “born of the Spirit.” Faithful discipleship is also rooted in practicing the spiritual disciplines and allowing the Spirit to work through us. 

What is true for the church as a whole, must be true for those who seek to be faithful disciples of Jesus Christ.  When one says yes to the invitation of discipleship, the journey begins.  Each step along toward Christian maturity must be undergirded by prayer, informed by scripture and enlightened by spiritual discernment. Such a journey is empowered by an awareness that we do not journey alone, and that the empowering gift of the Spirit given at that first Pentecost continues to provide comfort, strength and guidance.


Thank God for the gift of the Holy Spirit at that first Pentecost, for it is not simply a historical event, but a contemporary happening. We experience Pentecost when we are open and receptive to God’s will and purposes revealed through prayer and spiritual discernment. Through the gift of the Spirit we are empowered for living as faithful disciples.

Friday, March 29, 2013

Good Friday


The Friday of Holy Week is called “Good Friday” only because we know the rest of the story. The death of Jesus on the cross when dramatically portrayed allows us to identify with the pain and suffering.  Yet the reality of that horrible event points to a great truth. Death does not have the final word. Easter is the answer to the cruelty of crucifixion on the cross. 
Good Friday plays a prominent role in Holy Week because it causes us to consider the cross and what it means for our lives as a people of faith. United Methodist pastor, Adam Hamilton reminds us that the cross represents “a divine love story centered on a God who suffered to save the human race.”  The cross is about selfless and sacrificial love.  It defines the gospel and explains the most popular verse in the entire New Testament: “God so loved the world that he gave his only son…” (John 3:16)
The cross is not only Jesus’ story, but our own. It reminds us that forgiveness is a part of God’s story told from the cross. As the central symbol of Christianity, it points to hope in times of despair, and leads to gratitude for God’s mighty acts on our behalf. The cross represents redemption, and points to the possibility of new beginnings, little resurrections in this life , that allow us to have a fresh start in spite of our failures and shortcomings. The cross points the way to the paths we are to follow through acts of love and kindness. And the cross symbolizes the promise that awaits us at the end of this earthly journey when, like Jesus, our “good Friday” becomes “Easter.”

Monday, March 25, 2013

Holy Week


What we’ve come to call “Holy Week” is here. A friend said she grew up calling this week “Quiet Week.” This week before the celebration of Christ’s resurrection is a time for quiet reflection and contemplation on matters of life and death. We consider Jesus' life lived in love and compassion. We note in the gospels the events of Jesus’ last week of earthly life: the places he went, the people he chose to spend time with, his actions, his final words to his disciples that still live on in the lives of his followers today. And we, too, encounter the meaning of the cross.

All of this prepares us for Easter and the glorious proclamation that continues to be the central message of the Christian faith: "Christ has risen! He has risen indeed." So let us make this week quiet and holy by reflecting on life and death, the places we need to go, the people we need to spend time with, the words we need to say. May the message of the resurrection find expression through us in all we say and do. Holy Week is here. Blessings abound!

Monday, March 4, 2013

Hurry Up and Wait


Wikipedia defines "hurry up and wait" as any scenario where part of the time you are rushing and working very hard and part of the time you are waiting around and prepared to work on demand when needed.  The expression seems to have originated from movie productions where most of the crew sit around watching the film director and actors until their services are needed and they rush to do what is necessary to get ready for the next part of the production.
I’m sure you have had such “hurry up and wait” experiences. You rush to make an appointment on time only to find that you have to wait.  It most frequently happens in doctors and dentists offices, but happens in stores, too.  When you’re ready to check out with only a few items, you get in the express line and find that the person ahead you has more than the limited number of items or has a problem with a credit card! 
I confess.  I do not like waiting.  Waiting calls for patience, something I don’t have a lot of. I have to constantly work on being patient. This is a spiritual challenge and a growing edge toward more faith-filled living. 
The Bible is full of references to patience. The Psalmist wrote these words: “I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” (Psalm 27:13-14); “Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to act.” (Psalm 37:7) Scriptures also challenge us with such words as these: Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another” (Colossians 3:12-13);   “And we desire each one of you to show the same earnestness to have the full assurance of hope until the end, so that you may not be sluggish, but imitators of those who through faith and patience inherit the promises. (Hebrews 6:11-12 ) 
According to scriptures, patience is a “virtue” and a sign of the “fruit of the spirit.” Practicing patience is not an elective, but a requirement for a lifestyle of faithful living. I am not there yet, but I take some comfort in knowing that I am always a work in progress, grateful for God’s abundant patience with me.  Challenged by life’s “hurry up and wait” moments I strive to be more patient by seeking and claiming that spiritual gift.
Saint Francis de Sales expressed the challenge this way:  “Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them – every day, begin the task anew.”  Good advice as we deal with the “hurry up and wait” experiences of life!